Stop (trying to Stop) Bullying

I am not "Pro Bully" I am pro common sense.


Today's entry might piss a lot off so if you are sensitive to 'possibly offensive material' PLEASE skip this entry.




1st-  bullying does not lead to suicide. Yes bullying cause depression, self esteem issues, etc.

2nd- Bullying happens...in ALL parts of life. High school, elementary/grammar school, the work force, the bedroom (ladies calling a guys dick not big enough is bullying...dicks have feelings too...oh so do their penises I guess >.>)

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3rd- you know that bully you stigmatize because he is a bully, THAT IS BULLYING.


Bullying- Verb- Use of superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.
               Sound familiar? Yeah that punk who calls you a slut because you didn't blow him at the football game. He is a bully.
Wanna know what also is bullying?

"You, stop picking on little timmy, his speech impediment isn't something to make fun of him for. Either you stop or shit will happen to you."

You call it "discipline" I call that bullying or ABUSE of power. wait...those are the SAME THING (who knew!?)



I was bullied in high school. I'm still bullied (by high schoolers while I am 'college aged'. So I want to point out- bullying is part of life, it builds character, teaches one to learn to handle stress. Deal with adversity and over all just handle LIFE...because life sucks. It isn't flowers, candy necklaces and ponies. (those things are fucking expensive.)



I find these are "common reasons to be bullied"


Someone's appearance (e.g. hair colour or style, height)
Someone's race
Someone's religion
Someone's nationality
Someone's sexual orientation
Someone being jealous


 Notice all of these reasons...they are based primarily on negative emotions from the bully. MEANING the bully is just as 'depressed' as the target bullied. The only thing "keeping him from walking up the street with a blade" is that his outlet is pissing off the world with his negativity. I.E- bullying the shit out of little timmy.



NOW let's take a GOOD example.


Johnny is walking through the school and sees little Timmy, now little Timmy is in the musical and that means he is "gay" Johnny calls Timmy a fag. Now Timmy loves tits. BIG TITS and the women attached to those tits, meaning he joined the musical to get laid. (Good boy Timmy, knowing what it takes to get access to those bra straps Uncle Sam is Proudofya!) Now Johnny gets a few girls here and there because he is the BAD GUY but Timmy...well Timmy's the man whore of the school musical., all those girls Johnny got are Timmy's sloppy seconds.


Timmy doesn't care if he is called fag by Johnny because he knows he isn't a fag. He holds his head up proud. Johnny however calls Timmy a fag because he is JEALOUS of the fact that Timmy has talent, women, able to have fun doing something, and isn't afraid of doing what he wants. All things relating to IMPOTENCE. (Not sexually- mentally here) he is impotent mentally in the sense where HE CAN'T do what he wants, fearing his 'image' will be ruined so he picks on people who CAN do anything they want because they want to.

Johnny gets more and more MAD at Timmy for not caring about the bullying but when they are seniors and about to graduate, Timmy goes to Johnny and they talk. At first Johnny is insecure, scared and thinks he might be gay anyway. Asking Timmy for advice he forgives Johnny understanding the stigma of being the bully and accepts him for who he is, allowing Johnny to be himself finally in turn NO MORE BULLY.




Now don't give me the "well thats one case! it doesn't always happen that way!" Because honestly- I don't care. My point is this= the reason many kids commit suicide of being bullied- is that they allow the words (that is the BIG part there, most of them are just words) to affect them. Yeah there are physical bullies- to deal with those you learn to fight back. Simple as that.


Now for the "cyber bullies"- my solution- don't feed the god damn trolls.
IF someone has nothing better to do then pick on you via the internet, guess what? Block them. Ignore them. Call the FBI and rat them out. Do anything to STOP it. Don't bottle it, and cry in bed reading the taunting remarks. Go to your mom and dad and show them the offenses and say "I want to take them down, call the FBI!" It'll work. Nothing says "stop bullying" like two suits coming to your house and locking you up for calling Suzy a whore on facebook. :D




Any way that is my rant.

My opinion on bullying is this- don't try stopping it, just deal with it the old fashion way= fight back/ignore it.

Plain and simple.



Alright guys follow on twitter and here, leave your comments below and questions about things for me to rant about. I probably left this unfinished in a sense because I was getting more and more side tracked while writing because I was actually bothered by this topic.


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